The Sex Race…
He’s almost finished and you haven’t even started yet. Sound familiar?
It takes the average man 3-5 minutes to climax, while the average woman takes 10-20 minutes. (Note: these are averages.) YES, there are men that can hang in there for hours and women that climax after a swift breeze, but we are using averages here, so work with me.
Fortunately for men, most intercourse involves direct stimulation of the penis; ultimately leading to climax. Conversely, most women require clitoral stimulation of some kind to achieve an orgasm. However; the clitoris is not always directly stimulated during vaginal sex, thus leaving the woman unsatisfied sometimes.
So, what should YOU do to guarantee pleasure each and every time? Find out what YOU like. It is impossible for you to expect your partner to satisfy you properly if you don’t even know how. Engage in clitoral and other hot spot stimulation prior to penetrative sex. This way, you are turned on prior to engaging in intercourse. To accommodate for the time disparity in climax times between men and women, give yourself a head start. This way, when you do engage in sex after foreplay, you’ve started the race at the half way point. Communicate with your partner so that they know how to get you “there”. Once your body is trained to achieve orgasm, it is easier to do so. Try arousal creams, toys, and experimentation to spice up your bedroom and orgasms.
Good luck trying.
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Before we get to know each other, I want to introduce myself. I am the co-owner of an online/home-party adult toy novelty company. I have encountered thousands of women along this journey that began almost five years ago. I started out selling toys and other adult novelties at ladies-only parties throughout the NY/NJ/CT tri-state area. From the first woman that confided intimate details about her sex life, to the many men that have asked me for tips; I've enjoyed every minute of this journey. I'm honored to be sharing with you. You're a new audience, so I'll take it slow; but hopefully we'll laugh and grow together. I'll be sharing relationship advice, sex tips and much more. You may not always agree, but please understand; I am just a girl with an opinion about a lot of things. So, I hope you grow to like the new column, “Ask Janine”. Janine, ToyClosetNYC.comView all Ask Janine posts.